There was much more but I decided to stop at this point. That was plenty
for one day. It was quite obvious that this had become one of those days
when negativity was overcoming my positive attitude. That’s when it
happened. Before calling it a day, I disciplined myself to check my e-mail.
That led to even greater depression when I discovered 231 new e-mails. At
this point, I decided I was too exhausted to start opening any of them. I
did, however, browse several of the addresses and subject titles. For some
unknown reason, one particular subject title caught my eye. It was unlike
any title I had seen before... plain and simple but unusual in some strange
way. It intrigued me to take a peek. I did just that and suddenly found
myself on that mysterious journey I mentioned earlier. I found a short,
direct request from a charming young lady of 14 by the name of Carly. It
read as follows:
"My name is Carly Ann _______ and I am 14. My brothers and I collect
business cards from famous motivational speakers. Would you please send us
three of your business cards for our collections and sign them on the back
side. Thank you for joining our collections."
She signed off with her mailing address which was a small town not far
from Indianapolis. I can’t explain why but that short message brought an
immediate smile to my face, outweighed all of the negativity I mentioned
earlier and, in short, made my day! As I now reflect back on the message
content, I realize my reaction was the result of a combination of things.
- This young lady was a mere 14 years of age.
- She was utilizing technology to achieve a personal goal.
- She was representing her brothers.
- She was very direct in her request.
- She identified me as a "famous motivational speaker." (This young lady
is destined for greatness — she knows how to get what she wants!)
- She thanked me in advance.
- She and her brothers have chosen a very unique, positive hobby.
Despite my exhaustion, I felt rejuvenated and compelled to sign three
business cards and get them into the mail immediately. However, I was very
impressed and curious by this young lady so I composed a short message to
her e-mail address. I thanked her for her kind note, assured her that I
would get the cards to her, and then asked a few short questions. I asked
for the names and ages of her brothers, what inspired her to pursue this
unusual hobby, and how many autographs she had in her collection. I received
a prompt reply with answers to all of my questions. Part of her reply
included these comments:
"Our dad is very active in his trade association. He has been the
president and national committee person. He takes us to the state convention
and to the_______ _______ Annual Meeting to hear motivational speakers. He
has also spoken to groups. We have always liked hearing speakers. We started
collecting cards from motivational speakers, cartoonists (political, comics
& comic books) and CEO's of large companies. I have been doing this since I
learned to use the internet (maybe age 7). We each have two full binders
with baseball card pages. I do not know the exact number. I have been
interviewed on a radio station in Philadelphia about my collection. Thank
you for your help. We may get to hear you some day."
Obviously, this bright young lady and her brothers have been influenced
in a very positive way by loving, concerned parents. Carly has demonstrated
intelligence, creativity, and initiative which will obviously prepare her
for the challenges she’ll meet later in life. I’m certain she’s well
equipped and prepared to achieve any and all goals she has created for her
future. Her parents are to be commended, and I have to believe they’re very
proud of her. I also have a strange feeling that I may some day get a call
from her requesting me to speak to the organization she leads in her role as
CEO!
In the meantime, I want to thank her for "making the day" for this
famous motivational speaker. She not only brought a smile to my face but
she reminded me that we have a wonderful, intelligent, creative, generation
of young people who are ready, willing, and able to lead us into a very
bright future. Thank you, Carly! I hope someday we’ll meet one another in
person on this strange, mysterious journey we call Life.
Harry K. Jones is a professional speaker
and consultant for AchieveMax®, Inc., a firm
specializing in custom-designed keynote presentations, seminars, and consulting
services. Harry has appeared all over North America addressing topics such as
change, customer service, creativity, employee retention, goal setting,
leadership, stress management, teamwork and time management for a number of industries,
including education, financial, government, healthcare, hospitality, and
manufacturing. He can be reached at 800-886-2MAX or by visiting
http://www.AchieveMax.com.
Publication Date: Spring 2002
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